What to Do When God Seems Silent

What to Do When God Seems Silent

Recently, I had the gift of a couple of days alone near Lake Michigan. My “God-Date,” I call it.   One evening, I sat outside in a rocking chair. Without city lights, darkness surrounded me. Cool air brushed my skin. Waves rolled steadily onto the shore.  ...
Let God Alone Define You

Let God Alone Define You

We all have people in our lives who misunderstand us, judge us, criticize us, or even attack us.   Sometimes there’s truth in their words. There may be something in their criticism that God can use to help us grow.   But other times, what people say about us...
Learning to Practice Quiet

Learning to Practice Quiet

This morning during my Quiet Time, something unexpected rose up within me.   I’d been sitting in silence for quite a while when I realized I’d fallen asleep sitting up. When I woke, I couldn’t get my quiet time back. I didn’t tell myself I had wasted part of it....
Are You Chasing the Dragon?

Are You Chasing the Dragon?

The First Taste Years ago, when I was in college, I did what college students often do. I studied hard, worked to get good grades, and tried to become the best version of myself I knew how to be.   But there was another side of me too.   I loved being wild...
How Grace Rewires Your Brain

How Grace Rewires Your Brain

We all have messages that quietly replay in our minds.   They tell us who we are, what we’re worth, and whether we’re enough.   Sometimes we’re barely aware of them. They run in the background, quietly shaping the way we see ourselves, relate to others, and...
Is That All You’ve Got, God?

Is That All You’ve Got, God?

“Is that all You’ve got?” I said to God as I stood beneath the stars.   I was twenty-eight years old, alone in a pop-up camper in my backyard, determined not to come out until I knew whether God was real. (I reveal the full story in my book, Divine Flow:...
The Feast Begins Before the Tears Are Gone

The Feast Begins Before the Tears Are Gone

What the prodigal son teaches us about sorrow, grace, and coming home   Have you ever had two Scriptures connect in a way you hadn’t noticed before?   It happened to me this week.   During my Quiet Time, I pondered the daily reading: “Those who sow with...